The checkbox is gone now.
OK... I'll bite, how'ed you do that.
I didn't...you did when you ran Fix Packages. I checked after you ran it.
1. Backup database to your PC using phpmyadmin's export tool. It's better than SMF's.
2. Make a new folder; "/home/ourfamil/public_html/FamilyForum_new"
3. Upload a copy of SMF 2.0.10
large upgrade version into the new folder...not the full install version or it will try to create a new db. Use Cpanel's File Manager to upload the zip then extract it. Will take only a minute for uploading and extracting and is much faster than FTP.
4. Copy the Settings.php and Settings.bak files to the new folder. Do not forget this step or your forum will not load!
5. Rename the existing "/home/ourfamil/public_html/FamilyForum" using the date at that time, example; "...public_html/FamilyForum_07102015"
... using the date lets us keep track for later use as needed.
6. Rename the "...FamilyForum_new" folder to "...FamilyForum" and run the
upgrade procedure using the existing database. Run
http://ourfamilyforum.org/FamilyForum/upgrade.php. This will ensure that your files and the database are upgraded as needed.
7. Upload repair_settings.php and run it to make sure everything is linked properly and showing the correct folders.
8. Test the forum to make sure it works and links/folders are correct.
9. Install themes, images, and mods...in that order.